Lucrurile se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 a\u0219a: pe la un an, un an jum\u0103tate, doi, te prinzi c\u0103 ceva nu e tocmai \u00een regul\u0103 cu copilul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n
\u00cencepe dansul prin cabinete – de\u0219i s-ar putea s\u0103 fii \u0219i tras \u00eenapoi de cuvinte ca: “e\u0219ti tu nebun\/\u0103”, “fiecare copil are ritmul lui”, “\u0219i Blaga a vorbit la 5 ani”. Taci, \u00eenghi\u021bi \u00een sec, speri – de\u0219i te jignesc – s\u0103 aib\u0103 ei dreptate. Instinctul \u00ee\u021bi spune \u00een continuare c\u0103 ceva nu e \u00een regul\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u00cen fine, prime\u0219ti diagnosticul: autism, TSA, autism atipic!?, note!? autiste – diverse variante, unele mai bl\u00e2nde, altele care taie \u00een carne vie.<\/p>\n
Soacra \u0219i vecina de la 5 cred, \u00een continuare, c\u0103-l r\u0103sfe\u021bi prea mult. Tu, uneori singur\u0103, alteori \u00eempreun\u0103 cu tat\u0103l copilului ave\u021bi de luat decizii: repede, s\u0103 facem ceva, s\u0103 se “recupereze” \u00een 2, 3, 5 ani, p\u00e2n\u0103 ajunge la gr\u0103di, la \u0219coal\u0103, la…<\/p>\n
\u00cencepe\u021bi terapie: ABA, senzoriala, logopedie, 3C, 5G (asta nu exist\u0103), cu cai, cu p\u0103s\u0103ri (nici asta), celule stem, neurofeedback…orice, orice, oric\u00e2t. C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti disperat, sim\u021bul critic te cam p\u0103r\u0103se\u0219te. Ajunge s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun\u0103 cineva c\u0103 \u00een 3 luni copilul va vorbi, c\u0103 va socializa imediat ce-l integrezi \u00een colectivitate…<\/p>\n
Speri, sco\u021bi banii din banc\u0103 sau te \u00eemprumu\u021bi, \u00ee\u021bi mai iei un job, dou\u0103 sau trei ori dimpotriv\u0103: renun\u021bi la orice f\u0103ceai \u00eenainte, arunci pantofii cu toc, rochiile office, agenda \u0219i via\u021ba ta la gunoi.<\/p>\n
Te angajezi asistent personal. Te frustrezi zi de zi, an de an, recuperarea (a\u0219a cum o visai) nu se produce. A, da, copilul poate s\u0103 arate vaca \u0219i s\u0103 spun\u0103 “miau”!<\/p>\n
Chiar dac\u0103 a ajuns la \u0219coal\u0103, printre tipici, copilul t\u0103u e considerat ciudat. El \u00eenc\u0103 nu simte, dar tu sim\u021bi. Te doare, dar continui.<\/p>\n
Uneori ai noroc de o \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toare cu har, alteori nu ai, \u00een plus p\u0103rin\u021bii ar cam vrea s\u0103 scape de “ciudatul” care le trage copiii \u00een jos. Poate au \u0219i ei dreptate: te faci mic\u0103 \u0219i ro\u0219e\u0219ti c\u00e2nd se vorbe\u0219te pe grup sau \u00een \u0219edin\u021be despre el\/tine. Continui. E\u0219ti \u00een burnout \u0219i nu mai \u00een\u021belegi ce ai de f\u0103cut: ai doar drumuri, terapii, al\u021bi speciali\u0219ti, alte tratamente, nop\u021bi albe, gri. Nu mai ai prieteni, nu ai timp de ei. Recuperarea e contra cronometru.<\/p>\n
\u00centre timp ai uitat s\u0103 te bucuri de copila\u0219ul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine. Da, e atipic, dar tot de mama\/tata are nevoie, nu de un adult \u00eennebunit, jum\u0103tate terapeut, jum\u0103tate la limita r\u0103bd\u0103rii.<\/p>\n
Copilul cre\u0219te. Distan\u021ba dintre el \u0219i tipici cre\u0219te \u0219i ea.<\/p>\n
Ce facem \u00een continuare?<\/p>\n
Noi \u00eencerc\u0103m prin T\u0103r\u00e2mul lui Andrei s\u0103 spunem o poveste frumoas\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 facem o schimbare.<\/p>\n
Nu, copiii no\u0219tri nu vor deveni neurotipici, dar au dreptul la o bun\u0103 calitate a vie\u021bii, la respect \u0219i la demnitate. Au nevoie de activit\u0103\u021bi pe m\u0103sura posibilit\u0103\u021bilor fiec\u0103ruia \u0219i de prieteni asemeni lor.<\/p>\n
V\u0103 invit\u0103m s\u0103 le scriem viitorul \u00eempreun\u0103!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Lucrurile se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 a\u0219a: pe la un an, un an jum\u0103tate, doi, te prinzi c\u0103 ceva nu e tocmai \u00een regul\u0103 cu copilul t\u0103u. \u00cencepe dansul prin cabinete – de\u0219i s-ar putea s\u0103 fii \u0219i tras \u00eenapoi de cuvinte ca: “e\u0219ti tu nebun\/\u0103”, “fiecare copil are ritmul lui”, “\u0219i Blaga a vorbit la 5 ani”. 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